Yes, this is the perfect choice for first-timers – no scams to be found, it comes as described and it’s discreetly packaged all around. It’ll give you the love you need, and it’s soft and nice to feel – but be careful not to finish inside, because it’s not an easy clean-up deal! It was a joke gift at first, but the birthday boy let me know that it was by far his favorite present – who knew a sex toy could be such a hit?